I just celebrated my 32nd birthday and it has been the best birthday-celebration in Moldova so far! Here’s to a new year in a new place with new adventures every day.
Many friends and family asked how people celebrate birthdays in Moldova and were curious as to how I was celebrated here in my new home.
From my experience so far, when someone celebrates their birthday in Moldova, they prepare all the food for a celebratory masa (table) with their family and/or friends — or they may treat their friends and family with a meal out at a restaurant. Then, the birthday celebrator may receive gifts like flowers, a bottle of wine or cognac, or chocolates, or perfume.
However, my birthday this year included some of the typical Moldovan celebratory-traditions along with some traditions I am used to from home. Since my actual birthday fell on a Saturday this year, it meant a weekend full of celebrations.
Starting on Friday, after a little concert at the local art gallery — one of the students I know and her mother who is a friend of mine, had a sweet little surprise for me. They played a Christmas song for my birthday – daughter on the guitar and her mother singing along at various parts. Here’s just a little sample of the song for you – and it’s in English.
Dinner that evening consisted of one of my favorite meals, breakfast for dinner. Some of my site mates and nearby volunteer friends prepared pancakes, fried potatoes, apple sauce, apple cake, and leftover pumpkin pie from thanksgiving. Some local friends came over for dinner and hung out as we watched a little bit of one of my favorite British TV comedies, IT Crowd and we also enjoyed the movie Despicable Me 2 as well.
Then, for my actual birthday on Saturday I had to head to Chisinau for some meetings. It was a full day and I got an opportunity to see many other volunteers at the PC office, the first meeting even included a cake and some songs.
Since I enjoy Greek food, we went to a Greek restaurant in Chisinau. We had about 16 volunteers packed into the back of the restaurant. Just as our food was arriving, the music increased and the lights decreased — and the party lights came on. Before we knew it, we could no longer see our food or hear one another very well. Someone started singing karaoke in the corner. A door to a private room opened and people came out to dance in the center of the restaurant, which was also right next to our table. So, why not join them in dancing?
After dinner a few of us went back to the apartment we rented for the night to watch one of my favorite holiday movies, Elf — it wouldn’t be complete without the tradition of watching this movie at some point around my birthday.
On Sunday a few of us made our way to check out one of the churches (in English!) that we heard about from some other volunteers. And then I made my way back to site to celebrate with my host family. My host mom prepared a masa to celebrate both my host sister and I since we both celebrate a birthday in the same week – just one year and 2 days apart!
Then, on Monday my work partner and co-workers surprised me with some cake, treats and tea! Such a fun Monday!
It was quite a joy-filled weekend with lots of new friends, little surprises (like gifts and treats left in my newly decorated Peace Corps locker), texts, videos and songs from friends from home, and many of the things that I so enjoy.
Would you believe that many of my new friends (and even my work colleagues) have picked up on my love for scarves? I do believe that my scarf collection in Moldova has now doubled — thank you oh, so much!
Truly, though — thank you to so many for the birthday wishes from near and far — thank you for the sweet treats, chocolates, wine, cakes… for the funny videos and hilarious songs — for the lovely new scarves — phone calls, emails and snapchats — and most of all for your friendship and love. I have so much to be grateful for as I reflect upon this past year and look forward to the new one ahead.
For those of you at home, who want to know the answers to THE birthday questions – check back later this week where I’ll share them then. 😉